If your partner in life is more supportive, you might go for a gift certificate from some place like http://www.LincolnTactical.net. How do you “receive” a gift certificate? Perhaps you can start by giving one. What does she want? What has she been talking about? Anything that could be a hint for gift ideas?
Write an article with heading and picture (full color) to print out and strategically position at home. It might be a bit too much to paste it on the refrigerator door. Maybe leave it half folded on your bedside table.
What should it say? I leave that up to you, because you know your better half. But it might talk about the virtues of gift certificates, because a guy wants to choose his own rifle and gear. Be sure to include the internet address of the website which offers gift certificates and be certain your article mentions a dollar amount compatible with the item you’re after. Also, check out the website first to ensure they offer gift certificates in that amount.
If you feel uncomfortable writing it, have a friend write it for you. This might be better, especially if your lovely partner would recognize your writing style. The object is to make it look like a professional magazine article you’ve photocopied.
Have fun with it and good luck!